Want to be a fun Dad? Go on an adventure! Now, hold on a second. I know, I know. You're busy. Funds are tight. Great news! Taking your kid on an adventure doesn't have to be involved or costly. You don't have to go camping (what? no hot water?) or whitewater rafting (though that would be fun some day). In fact, you can have an adventure tomorrow. My son and I have at least two adventures a week. My secret? The "adventure way"! Pictured above, the adventure way is really nothing more than an alternate route to his school. It adds no more than 5 minutes to our commute. The route is deliciously littered with potholes that rattle the car and our teeth (much to the Boy's delight). My son has deemed it suitable for "boys only" (certainly too rugged for Mommy). This week, we discovered that the adventure way is prone to flooding when it rains. We splashed through the muddy puddles at high speed (at least 20 mph) as my son belly laughed the way six-year-olds do. We even did a few U-turns to plow through them again! That morning, I did have mud dripping off every exterior surface of my car and didn't have as much time to get organized for my day at work, but I did (hopefully) make a memory with my son.
Of course, you don't have to limit yourself to an "adventure way". Get creative! What does your kid like? My son loves carwashes and we have gone on many adventures looking for new carwashes to explore. Since he's been able to talk, I think we've covered every carwash in a 20-mile radius of our house. We passed by a carwash recently, months after having gone there, and the Boy said, "There's the adventure carwash"! He remembered that the carwash also filled up our gas tank before the wash and that I had bought him some cookies. He even remembered spilling the cookies on the ground and that we had fun feeding them to the birds. We've also had adventures driving around the airport watching the planes roar overhead. So, Dads, don't wait for the day you have the funds or until you have enough vacation time built up to go camping. Take your kid on an adventure today!

You are such a good dad!!!!! The adventure way is far too rugged for me... You guys would make me spill my coffee. I can see you screaming through puddles and laughing... the car is in need of a trip to the "adventure car wash" after your puddle run.
ReplyDeleteIt IS in need of a wash! Luckily I discovered an unexplored carwash I can take him too!
DeleteI loved that picture of you and your son at the end of this post. This honestly was such a wonderful and loving post about time spent with you and your son, but then again I would expect nothing less of you, because you truly are an amazing dad!! Thanks for sharing :)
ReplyDeleteHi Janine! Thanks! We just had a couple of sessions at the Picture People! Love them! Thanks for reading and commenting!
DeleteEven the most mundane of errands can be turned into an adventure by stopping by a construction site. The "alternate path" adventure is always good (until you get lost and wind up on a real adventure - whoops).
ReplyDeleteHey there, Daniel! Construction sites are a great idea! I hear you about winding up on a real adventure! That's why God invented GPS!
DeleteMy mom took us on Adventure Walks as a kid around our neighborhood. She made up stories about things stuck in trees and pretending we were being stalked by wild animals. They are some of my very favorite memories. I fully intend to carry on the tradition with Leo. Great post Justin!
ReplyDeleteHi Jen! So glad to hear your adventures with your Mom are some of your favorite memories! That's encouraging! I never thought about enhancing these adventures with wild animals! Maybe I'll do zombies!
DeleteAwesome tips. One of my favorite "adventure" activities is going in the backyard and go exploring for different bugs. I love the carwash idea. It's funny how something so simple can bring so much joy to your children. Happy writing
ReplyDeleteHey Kyle! Searching your bugs in the backyard is an AWESOME idea! Thanks for reading. I am heading over to check out your blog now!
DeleteYou are so right! You can turn almost anything into an adventure. I have to admit though that my son is much more creative than I am. I come up with things like snuggle time and he counters with a nose picking contest. Creative boy he is!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog today. Also wanted to let you know that you are always welcome to join us on Thursday's for our "Linkin with my ladies" Blog hop. Don't let the name scare you off! Gents are welcome too! I had my first gent link up with us yesterday!
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Hi Katie! Thanks for leaving me a comment! Yes, us boys are nothing if not creative! Challenge your son to a burping contest! He'll love it! :)
DeleteThanks for the invite to "Linkin with the ladies"! I won't let the name scare me off! :)Thanks!